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Aug. 17th, 2025 03:53 pm
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Having now acquired a uni laptop for study, I'm handling the different parts of my life better. One of the things that I'm really starting to embrace is Obsidian.

After a couple of false starts, I've moved my daily journalling there--I've created a template, and literally the only thing I require of myself each day is that I click the button that generates the daily note. Some days I don't do more than that, but as the template has a couple of verb tags, I come back afterwards and revisit. So far I mostly haven't been adding any details, but I am copying my 750 words in there, and if then afterwards at some point I will read through those (tag: to-do/tidy) and see whether anything resonates. This is a deliberately asynchronous process, because dumping the everything is cathartic, and I won't know what is going to resonate.

One of the interesting things is that I'm capturing bits and bobs of ideas, and not really worrying about where they go. It is possible that I'll never look at them again, and that is okay. but it is also possible that at some point I'll do a search on a word, see the set of things, and make a map of content. This is not a curated garden, this is a bushland with paths.

But! it means that I have draft blog posts that I remember to go and look at, because I have tagged them as blog/draft, and thus I have successfully separated out 'I have a thing I want to write' from 'dealing with posting'. Which is probably going to mean that things will be posted in clumps (this post is going straight into the editor, which is not the current normal).

reading lists (2025-07-04)

Aug. 17th, 2025 03:47 pm
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from the drafts archive

Bookbub: The Best Science Fiction and Fantasy Books of Summer 2025 (Jeff Somers) - supposedly a 'curated' list; I saw a number of new to me authors. There were three that I'm lukewarm about and have added to the list, and the rest I was bored by the descriptions. I suspect this is part of an ongoing issue with the way that blurbs are written, as I'm increasingly uninterested

added

  • Infinite Archive (Mur Lafferty) - because it is book three in the series; and I'm interested in where it might go
  • Lucky Day (Chuck Tingle) - maybe
  • Hemlock and Silver (T Kingfisher)

Transfer orbit: 11 new books for July - unsurprisingly, some overlap with the previous list; the only one I could have added was already there from the above list.

Gizmodo: 82 New Sci-Fi, Fantasy, and Horror Books Arriving in July - this is really too many books. I have skimmed, but wasn't committing to reading everything. Unsurprisingly, there are repeats. The blurbs here were shorter, and yet worse. I did add a couple to the list, but I'm a bit dubious. The Arthuriana one is intriguing, but book 3 of a series; the new Rivers of London one is of interest to Artisanat

added:

  1. Arthur by Giles Kristian - book 3, but Arthurian
  2. The Frozen People by Elly Griffiths

New Scientist: The best new science fiction books of July 2025 - some of the same books, with more interesting summaries. I am, however, a grouch, and added a single book to the 'maybe' list

maybe:

  1. Circular Motion (Alex Foster)

Sunday Word: Empyreal

Aug. 17th, 2025 02:39 pm
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empyreal [em-pir-ee-uhl, -pahy-ree-, em-puh-ree-uhl, -pahy-]

adjective:
1 pertaining to the highest heaven in the cosmology of the ancient
2 pertaining to the sky; celestial
3 formed of pure fire or light

Examples:

In the hypnotic and immersive world of the supernatural thriller Falling Stars, the existence of an empyreal coven of witches, who once a year individually zip down to Earth to collect herbs and goodies left out as tribute by mostly penitent humans on a holiday called First Harvest, is a given. (Shawn Macomber, A Witch Brings Down Vengeance in the Fascinating Falling Stars, Rue Morgue, October 2024)

She has conjured up the Pharaonic funk and empyreal jazz of George Clinton and Sun Ra. (Holland Cotter, Met's Beloved Roof Garden Draws on Ancient Egypt and South Central L A, The New Tork Times, April 2023)

The last of the olives would have been picked and the grape harvest over, the sap retreating in the vines, the withering leaves transforming the lush green undulating hills of Chianti to a picturesque mosaic of autumnal reds, ambers, golden yellows, fading to copper, bronze and ochre against an empyreal blue sky. (Curtis Marsh, Not too late for Tuscany, The Wandering Palate, December 2011)

Usurping the empyreal realm of the eagle, he assumes for a time the port and dignity of that majestic bird, and often is mistaken for him by ignorant crawlers upon the earth. (Washington Irving, Astoria or Anecdotes of an enterprise beyond the Rocky Mountains)

To the bright tireless eye of the vulture, an infinite speck hung motionless in the empyreal heights of cosmic space, was something else - the swaying, tottering, reeling figure of a man. (P C Wren, Beau Sabreur)

Origin:

late 15c, 'pertaining to the highest heaven,' from Medieval Latin empyreus, from Greek empyros 'fiery,' from assimilated form of en + pyr 'fire' (from PIE root paewr- 'fire') + -al. Confused by early writers with imperial. (Online Etymology Dictionary)

Empyreal can be traced back to the Greek word for 'fiery,' empyros, which was formed from the prefix em- ('in,' 'within,' or 'inside') and -pyros, from pyr, the Greek word for 'fire.' When empyreal entered the English language - via the Late Latin empyreus or empyrius - in the 15th century, it specifically referred to things related to the empyrean, the highest heaven or outermost heavenly sphere of ancient and medieval cosmology, which was often thought to contain or be composed of the element of fire. In the works of Christian writers - such as Dante's Divine Comedy and John Milton's 'Paradise Lost' - this outermost heavenly sphere was associated with the Christian paradise. Empyreal is now also used more broadly in the senses of 'celestial' and 'sublime.' (Merriam-Webster)

Worldcon Report: Saturday

Aug. 16th, 2025 11:36 pm
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I started the day with a crumpet and shopping at Pike Place Market, then headed over to the con, where I attended a panel and three readings.

  • A panel on writing for corporate IP with Rebecca Roanhorse, G. Willow Wilson, and Diana Ma (with whom I wasn't familiar; she's written various works for hire, most notably Power Rangers). It was an interesting conversation about the upsides and downsides of working in other people's sandboxes.
  • First reading: Fonda Lee, who read from a forthcoming sci-fi novel about warriors who are essentially samurai who work for multi-planetary corporations.
  • Second reading: Rebecca Roanhorse, who read a bit of her breakthrough short story ("Welcome to Your Authentic Indian Experience", which won a Hugo some years back), a bit of the third book in her epic fantasy series Between Earth and Sky, and a bit of a forthcoming story set in The Sixth World. I would note that in both her panel and her reading, she mentioned being a Hugo finalist for Best Series but disclaimed any expection that she might win, which made what happened at the ceremony tonight even more exciting.
  • Third reading: Marie Brennan, who read a short story that came out a year or two ago. It was a good story, but particularly interesting because it was originally going to be a fantasy trilogy. But for various reasons, she never wrote those books, and eventually she decided the big concept -- a revolutionary who decides the figurehead of the revolution needs to be assassinated -- could be told in short form.
  • And then of course the Hugos. As I mentioned earlier, I didn't vote this year because I wasn't engaged reading, watching, or critical analysis at all this cycle, but I still wanted to watch the ceremony. Lots of surprise winners -- at least, surprises to my circle, and also apparently to Rebecca Roanhorse herself in the case of Best Series. Some high points: Abigail Nussbaum on the importance of critics to fandom, Diana Pho's call to stand up to fascism, and Roanhorse and Lodestar winner Darcie Little Badger on the need for diverse voices in fiction. (Have multiple indigenous people ever won Hugos in the same year before?) The ceremony was okay, some hiccups in production -- particularly the lack of pronunciation guides. Worldcon also needs to decide once and for all how to handle nominees with large production teams, because long lists of participants are still getting laughs in the room, which I don't feel great about.

The con continues into tomorrow, but I'm taking off in the morning to move into the second phase of this vacation: an Oregon coast road trip with some friends who are flying into Portland tomorrow and Monday. So I say goodbye to con space for now, and consider whether I'll go to Los Angeles next year.

itch.io Charity bundles roundup

Aug. 17th, 2025 01:16 pm
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Queer Games Bundle 2025 (with $10+ option!): Buy 616 items for $60 (includes 350 games & 169 trpg) to support over 300 queer developers and artists.. There's a Pay What You Can $10-$20+ version as well. Offer ends in 24 days. Interesting games I have noticed include: Elephantasy: Flipside (a charming Metroidvania puzzle platformer that you control a small elephant "Belle" to uncover the secrets between two worlds, collect gems, discover lost souls, and upgrade your abilities, $9.99), The girls of the Genziana Hotel (horror trpg that you play a hotel maid who are looking for your missing companion in an eerie hotel, $8), etc. There are so many games I'll need time to check through.

The Disaster Preparedness Bundle: Buy 25 trpg for $10 to support Distribute Aid's disaster preparedness initiative aimed at providing communities with the resources they need to survive and rebuild after disasters in the wake of FEMA cuts. Offer ends on 24 August. Includes Breakfast Cult & Game Over: A Breakfast Cult Expansion ($22.4 in total), Justice Sworn ($15) & more.

Secrets and Cars

Aug. 17th, 2025 12:11 am
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Posted by Frank

I’ve been called, “the most trusted stranger in America” and it’s been written that no other living person has seen more secrets than me. I don’t know if either of those claims is true, but I do know I don’t get to see all the secrets – I have a daughter.

Years ago, I was driving her and a friend in the back seat of my car. As we rolled along my daughter’s friend asked me out of the blue, “Mr. Warren, can I tell you a secret?” He had no idea I’m something of a world-class expert on secrets.

Because I know how explosive some secrets can be, I take it very seriously when someone trusts me with something they’ve never told anyone before. But in this case, I may have overreacted. Silently, I pulled the car over to the side of the road.

I stopped, put the car in park, and turned to face him directly. “I want you to feel free to tell me anything…” I began, my voice serious, “…but if your secret could cause someone harm, I might need to involve a parent or teacher.” A flicker of fear crossed his face. For a moment, I thought he might bolt out the door.

“Never mind.” he said.

After a PostSecret Event in Boston, the college student who had worked hard to organize it – and her father – gave me a ride back to my hotel. The night was cold and wet as her father navigated his Pontiac Vibe through the empty streets. 

The three of us talked about the courageous audience members who, earlier that night, had walked up to a microphone and shared a secret from their life for the first time publicly. We recounted some of their tragic, hopeful, and shocking confessions. “Remember the retired religious studies professor who confessed to delivering some of her lectures while she was high?” I said with a smile.

As we continued down the dark streets, the heater was blowing hard on me in the passenger seat and my eyelids were getting heavy. Just before nodding out, the young woman behind me started talking about her brother with her father. It was a personal conversation about a painful and unresolved part of their family history.

“Dad, there’s something about that time I’ve never told you before.” “Oh shit,” I thought to myself as I stayed motionless. I’m not supposed to be here. “Even though I never admitted it when we were all hurting, I always knew you were right.” She said.

Her father rolled slowly to a stop at a red light and looked in the rearview mirror at his daughter with eyes full of emotion. “I have a secret I’ve been keeping from you too. Remember that CD I gave you afterward with all the songs? Each one was about you.”

“I always knew that Dad. That’s why I can’t listen to it without crying.” She said.

The first time I told my Mom what I was doing with PostSecret, soliciting secrets from strangers and sharing them publically, she called the idea “diabolical”. My Father wasn’t so quick to judge, but said my project sounded “voyeuristic”. I didn’t disagree with him, but I did feel disappointed that he couldn’t see the beauty in it too.

Over the following months, when PostSecret came up during our phone calls, I tried to explain to my Dad why PostSecret was special and meaningful to me. How this anonymous but intimate communication between strangers could reveal that each of us has a secret that could break your heart. How secrets can illuminate deep connections between us that go unseen in our everyday lives.

Two years after collecting my first secret on the streets of Washington, DC, I had received over 250,000. I strung up 2,000 of the postcards at an exhibition in Georgetown. Visitors could walk among the suspended secrets reading the confessions and seeing the emotions on the faces of strangers doing the same thing.

Hundreds of people circulated through that first day and my wife and daughter were there to experience it with me. However, my wife had been keeping her own secret from me. She bought a ticket for my Father to fly out from Arizona to join us. He surprised me the next day and sat with me at the exhibition day after day for a week. Together, we saw thousands of people come face-to-face with secrets and heard many of their soulful stories.

The time came for my father to return home so I drove him to catch his redeye flight.  The highway to Dulles Airport was long and dark with little overhead lighting. We could hear the tires rolling along the smooth pavement as we sat alone with our thoughts. My father turned to me and broke the silence by saying, “Hey Frank, you want to hear my secret?”

Before I could answer, he told me a tragic story from his childhood. Something I had never known. It broke my world open. By the time we reached the airport, my relationship with my father had been recast. I helped him with his luggage and as I watched him walk away from the car I thought. “That’s it.” That’s the beauty of PostSecret.

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Aug. 17th, 2025 01:20 am
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Dear Care and Feeding,

My mom lives several states away. We see her a couple times a year, but my children don’t know her well because of the distance. Meanwhile, my sister lives around the corner from her, so her kids have a completely different relationship with “Grandma” than mine do.

She recently visited us, and I needed her to pick my 8-year-old up from day camp. It would be just the two of them for a few hours before I got off work, something that hasn’t happened before—usually I’m around or my sister’s kids. Well, that day, my son did not have a good time at camp and apparently didn’t talk much after pickup. He was even quiet with me once we met up. My mom said that she had to spend all afternoon with my son, and he wouldn’t talk to her. We had planned to get ice cream together, but my mom asked me to drop her off at the house instead.

She later told me that my son needs to be taught how to respond to people. I have tried reading him books about interacting with people, I have role-played with him and read many articles on how to help him. I don’t know how to make my shy, sensitive child respond to people he is uncomfortable with. Do you have tips? How can I help my mom to have a better relationship with him?

—Grandma/Grandson Mediator


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Aug. 17th, 2025 01:16 am
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Dear Prudence,

My husband got totally hammered at my sister’s wedding and somehow ended up falling into the wedding cake. I reimbursed them for the cost of it and made my husband write a letter of apology, but they are still furious, as are more than a few family members. What can we do to mend fences?

—Cake Catastrophe


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Fandom 5k fic

Aug. 17th, 2025 02:18 pm
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Finally revealed! The fic I wrote for Fandom5k:

The Ordinary Ever After Part (5552 words) by thawrecka
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Bleach (Anime & Manga)
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Ayasegawa Yumichika/Madarame Ikkaku
Characters: Madarame Ikkaku, Ayasegawa Yumichika
Additional Tags: Fluff, Slice of Life, Established Relationship, Humor, Smut, Post-Thousand Year Blood War Arc (Bleach)
Summary:

A series of moments in Ikkaku and Yumichika's life together.



Getting this assignment is also directly responsible for me getting back into Bleach, rofl. When thinking about signing up I saw someone requesting this pairing and thought, sure, I could write that pairing, I'm willing to sign up for that. And as soon as I got my assignment I went on an unhinged full manga canon review and got back into the anime and etc. etc. Well, I'm having a great time.

Bleach fic

Aug. 17th, 2025 02:17 pm
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Limbo (1014 words) by thawrecka
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Bleach (Anime & Manga)
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Kira Izuru & Matsumoto Rangiku, Kurosaki Ichigo & Kurosaki Isshin
Characters: Kira Izuru, Matsumoto Rangiku, Kurosaki Ichigo, Kurosaki Isshin, Tia Harribel
Additional Tags: Bittersweet, Grief/Mourning, Post-Winter War (Bleach), Awkward Conversations, Angst
Summary:

Three different shared griefs, in three different places.



The Ordinary Ever After Part (5552 words) by thawrecka
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Bleach (Anime & Manga)
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Ayasegawa Yumichika/Madarame Ikkaku
Characters: Madarame Ikkaku, Ayasegawa Yumichika
Additional Tags: Fluff, Slice of Life, Established Relationship, Humor, Smut, Post-Thousand Year Blood War Arc (Bleach)
Summary:

A series of moments in Ikkaku and Yumichika's life together.

Favorite Actress

Aug. 17th, 2025 08:21 am
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Anya Chalotra X4

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Fandom: The Scum Villain's Self-Saving System
Summary: Shang Qinghua is in a meeting with Mu Qingfang about the innovative new peak first aid centers when they're interrupted by a disciple from the beast peak: Shen Yuan, an otherwise ordinary young man, has discovered yet another treatment for sex pollen that involves neither sex nor involvement with heavenly demons.
Mirrors: AO3 link
Wordcount: ~1900 words
Ships: None
Notes: Inspired by this post on Tumblr:
Post text[tumblr.com profile] ceramicrambles:

Medical mystery Shen Yuan who literally every checkup has a new thing that should have killed him and Mu Qingfang is incredibly concerned

MQF: Shixiong, why is your blood purple?

SY: Oh right! it’s okay I was hit with the misty eyed-transfusion-curse-of-papapa pollen but I took the antidote so now I sprout a daisy every time I pee. It’s basically the closest thing to a cure haha and the only other treatment is heavenly demon blood so what are you gonna do, amirite?

MQF: what.

[tumblr.com profile] mikkeneko: mind you. I'm not saying Mu Qingfang is NOT concerned. But I also think that Known Mad Scientist Mu Qingfang would see an absolute golden opportunity in just following SQQ around with a notebook at this point
Thanks to [tumblr.com profile] ceramicrambles for both the inspiration and beta reading!
Fic: There's No Hippocratic Oath in Xianxia China )
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Saw a rec for this a while back, then ran across it at the library's new book display, so here we are. This is an 1100-page historical fiction book (originally published as a trilogy) written in the 1920s, set in 1300s Norway. Sort of, kind of, a love triangle; Kristin is betrothed to Simon, then she and Erlend fall in love and so they try to get out of the arranged marriage. Against a very Catholic backdrop of what is sin and what does this mean for your soul. The characters spend a lot of time praying to God, the saints, etc. (Undset converted to Catholicism a couple of years after finishing the series.) I like this kind of stuff that can be Very Earnest About Explaining The Themes, No Subtext Here, (see also, Dostoevsky, Hugo, etc.) but people less enamored of Christianity might find it slow going.

One of the overarching Very Earnest Themes is "if and when you sin, don't spend too much time worrying about when or if the comeuppances will strike, because there Will be comeuppances, you don't have to worry about that. So you might as well enjoy the fun parts while you can."

Everyone goes by patronymics, like modern Iceland, so literally, Kristin is "Lavran's daughter." Except there are also a few families that have unofficial family names, so Simon is sometimes Simon Andresson and other times Simon Darre. Here is a family tree (uh, spoilers), and there are probably more details/side characters one could add if one really wanted to. Actually most of the time I was able to hold in my head pretty well who the relevant characters were at any given time. The one thing that kept tripping me up is "who is Ulf and how is he related again." Ulf is Erlend's mom's half-brother (same father, but Ulf's mom was married to someone else at the time, which is why he's Ulf Haldorsson). By 1300s Norway standards this is obviously scandalous and Ulf is demoted to being Erlend's mere house servant. But he's brave and loyal and still around on the last page.

I am not a fan of the contemporary fandom slang about "boy moms" and "girl dads" etc., parenthood is parenthood. But if ever there were a quintessential Boy Mom, Kristin is it. She has seven big strapping lads, bold and sometimes a little too much so, like their dad. And yet deep down (or not so deep) she's very proud of them just how they are. Part of what's moving is the everyday descriptions of how parental love changes and stays the same across the decades.
Naakkve's foot was sticking out from the covers, slender, with a high instep, a deep arch over the sole, and not very clean. And yet, she thought, it wasn't long ago that the foot of this man was so small that she could wrap her fingers around it, and she had crushed it to her breast and raised it to her lips, nibbling on each tiny toe, for they were as rosy and sweet as the blossoms on a bilberry twig.
(Apparently the "Can I eat the baby's toes?" "No." "Just one?" routine is more of a cultural universal than just my extended family's idea of humor.)
Yes, sometimes she even felt a longing for the fjord.
Monty Python approves.

In the context of the Lord's Prayer:
he knew that in some way he had always been able to forgive his debtors. It seemed much harder to forgive anyone who had bound a debt around his neck.
Is there a more general name for this trope? (Towards the end of the first Harry Potter book there's that dialogue of "and then your father did something Snape could never forgive." "Oh?" "He saved his life." "..." "That was probably why he felt like he had to save you, so he didn't owe your father anything. Then he could go back to hating your father's memory in peace.") Like, that sense of fairness, and "I absolutely refuse to give someone else the chance to be the bigger person because that means they're winning," ties into some of the anxiety and issues I've been dealing with on and off. It's nice to see someone else articulate it, at least.

The patron saint of Norway is King Olav, who reigned in the 1000s, and the characters spend a lot of time praying to him. What's funny is that he didn't live a particularly pious life, the Vatican never officially canonized him, he was just a popular king and after he died in battle, the Norwegians just decided "he's a saint now." Then in the 1500s, the Reformation happened, and Scandinavia and other parts of Europe became mostly Lutheran/Protestant (so much less emphasis on the saints) rather than Catholic. But apparently even that didn't stop the Norwegians, they were just like, "he's our saint." My mom's family is not Scandinavian but they are (US) Lutherans, and my mom went to St. Olaf College in Minnesota, that's how much the Lutherans still love St. Olaf.

Crossover potential: Erlend's brother Gunnulf is a monk who traveled through Italy and went to Rome on pilgrimage, he explains "carnevale" to Kristin. The timing could work for him to have met Dante during the writing of the Divine Comedy!

Also, the last chapter is set in 1349, so Kivrin Engle from Oxford Time Travel could show up and be like "oh not again." (Also, there's a scene earlier where the village church catches on fire, and all the men go to evacuate the relics and stuff because that's the village's proudest possessions. Which was reminiscent of "To Say Nothing of the Dog," but also, from a 21st century perspective it's like...priorities, guys, God also wants you to watch out for each other's lives.

2.5 months later....i return

Aug. 16th, 2025 07:48 pm
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baking—
the only thing of note i can recall making is four batches (two lemon + two vanilla) of vegan ice cream for and two different kind of gf vegan cakes (one also being tree-nut free) for my niece's first birthday party which all 2 million people at the party seemed to enjoy skjndfksndfksdjnf


crafts—
the new yarn i purchased for punch needling did not in face work out ksjsndkfsnkdjf simply crazy that none of the supplies i have for punch needling are compatible it seems??? even though i bought the last round of materials based off a video tutorial's links ANYWAY i lost my mind a bit over this during my 16 day dogsitting experience and ordered another round of supplies for one final attempt to punch needle and after that i simply give up. i bought the oxford company's punch needle, fabric, and their non-slip hoop which, as an idiot, i did not realize is a whopping 14" kjsndfksjdnfksdnfks OOPS <3 for reference i am interested in making things perhaps 5" in size.........

finally opened the ol' photoshop up again and made one gifset and am thinking a lot about other gifsets to make and then not making them

got some cute fabric to make a little playmat/nap blanket for cousin#2's baby so that's exciting!! got an old timey pattern kit from the antique store for baby-related items so might try my hand at some of the others if this one goes well!

games—
finished da:i FINALLY if you can believe and did in fact start playing the witcher which i have not played in a while bc i was too stressed while i was dogsitting and also bc i'm bad at solving crime and worried i will not solve the crime correctly bc of that

my dnd players also FINALLY leveled up which means i got to show them the level upper i made FINALLY which everyone thought was cool yay. i really envisioned everyone like going through it together and us leveling up one person at a time but everyone immediately started going through their own sections and saying numbers to me skjdfnksdfsjfnksd so a bit of a scramble and then everyone said they will get back to me about their subclasses/new spells later which i am very excited to hear about!! also, it's been a whole year of our group playing!!?? insane????? my sister said 'how close are we to the end' to which i replied 'girlie you still don't even know where the mine of the lost mine of phandelver is yet <3'

relatedly, i was searching for a plant-ish barbarian subclass for my sister (of which there are really not any excluding world tree) and found some cool homebrews i wanted to share: College of Saga Bard Subclass for those who have seen Kpop Demon Hunters and College of Sin Bard Sublcass for Sinners enjoyers!!! i loveeeeeeeeeeeeee a fandom crossover ? combining two different things you like you know what i mean!!! such as fandom cookbooks you feel me !!!

movies&tv—
from the 2025 classics list:
  • 2001: A Space Odyssey ; absolutely hated her

  • Predator; not as bad as i thought it would be BUT i do think the predator is kind of corny for thinking he's all that killing people w space tech

  • Independence Day; now that's what i call a classic straight up alien movie! fun!

  • Runaway Bride; did not like the couple in this at all skjdfnksjnfskd bummer bc i was watching it with my cousinboss and her daughter who both LOVE it. simply no coming back for me from the moment he would not give her back her topless photo. i did think the parts of the movie other than the couple were fun such as julia's character's friends and svu man as bob

non-list movies:
  • The Dive (2023); started this bc i thought it was a shark movie and sophie lowe was in it but actually really enjoyed it! simply a sisters-in-media enjoyer

  • Something In the Water; this one DID have sharks and it was bad and i can't really remember but i do think it was enjoyable funnybad

  • Sinners (2025); very fun movie very fun soundtrack very good watch

  • Prey
  • ; i watched this before the actual Predator movie and this one actually was incredibly good
  • 28 weeks later
  • ; i liked this better than the first one also rumplestiltskin is in it
  • Fountain of Youth
  • ; bad <3
  • The Old Guard 2
  • ; HORRIBLE <3
  • the alien movies from AVP - Alien Romulus

  • Kpop Demon Hunters
  • ; fun w/ very catchy songs. watched bc Arden Cho and was surprised she didn't do her own singing
  • Final Destination Bloodlines
  • a good installment of the franchise, lol'd at the ending
  • The Edge of Tomorrow

  • M3gan 2.0
  • ; one moment made it all worthwhile
  • 28 years Laters
  • ; really liked this it was my favorite of the series. was surprised to find out there's a sequel coming- didn't feel like it needed one? but will still watch it when it comes out
  • The Day the Earth Stood Still
  • ; funny bad and also just bad

tv
  • The X-Files
; rewatch started during the dogsitting experience
  • Severance s1+2
; really enjoyed it! Chikhai Bardo was one of the best episodes of tv i've seen in a long time

books—
in june i read State of Wonder by Ann Patchett which my cousinboss told me 95% of the plot of when she read it for her book club and then proceeded to give me for my birthday skjfdnksndfksdjnf it was hard in the first half but picked up in the later half. also read Convergence Problems by Wole Talabi which was a collection of scifi short stories and i really enjoyed that! some very cool stories and i loved that in the back the author talked a little about the inspiration and etc for each story!

did not finish either of my reading challenge books from last month :') they were both over 500 pages and i simplyyyyyy was too stressed during dogsitting to ever read ksjdnfksjndfjdnf and then the books were due back at the library and you aren't allowed to renew if there's someone in line SO...tears. have moved on to my August books, starting with Kiki's Delivery Service by Eiko Kadono (translated by Emily Balistrieri) which i'm not...loving. the translation feels kind of ? awkward ?? going to try to finish anyway bc the prompt was to choose a book that starts with the first letter of your name and well....this was THEE 'K' on my to-read list.

also here is a really incredibly incredibly good Minako/Usagi fic that i ATE UP omg it has alllllll the usamina things that make me insane <3

dreaming like a girl so in love with the wrong world by [archiveofourown.org profile] straightforwardly
Befriending Usagi again was easier than breathing. All she had to do was slip into the seat besides her at the arcade, smiling as she said, "I've seen you around—Usagi-chan, isn’t it? Wanna play a game?"—and just like that, her princess' heart was won.

(Minako was used to being the only one who remembered.)

misc—
as mentioned above i spent 16 days dog/housesitting last month. as someone who has never spent a significant amount of time around dogs, had one previous incredibly stressful dogsitting experience, and does not particularly enjoy dogs in general it was a TIME. i also took care of the business during this time bc my cousinboss was on vacation and that was also ummmmmm stressful ! the first day one of the testing websites was glitching while i had 12 kids testing on it and ofc around 10 on the other website really very unfun day of my life! but it's over so wahoo and yippee! i did go out with a new friend for the first time which was very exciting! and i also got stung by a bee or perhaps wasp that day for the first time in ? at least 15 years skjjdfnkjsjdnfksj i truly forgot it hurt like That i was like oooooooh something has injured me w intent to kill !

i have 3-4 more days of work this month and then that's kind of it unless any little projects come up, so i have polished my resume and have been back on that job search horse! crossing my fingers for a job that will pay me at least $13/hr please oh pleaseeeeeee (the minimum wage here is frightening <3)
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Some absolute geniuses (Isaiah Tanenbaum, Rob Casimir, and Dan Iwrey) at the NYC Conflict of Interests Board have created what I feel confident in calling the greatest employee ethics training tool ever created: A D&D 5e oneshot called Escape from the Dinkins Building which was emailed to all 300,000 NYC employees back in June. (It's freely accessible to everyone else at the link, too.) It! Is!! Glorious!!!

I ran Escape from the Dinkins Building for [personal profile] fiona15351, and we had an absolute blast! I highly recommend it. It's designed for parties levels 2-5; we ran it with two PCs at level 6, one rogue and one paladin, and that worked fine. The setting is modern-day NYC, but magic and typical D&D fantasy elements are real and an acknowledged part of society. As adventurers, your characters are city employees in some capacity.

Here's the summary:
Having fallen asleep during a mandated training, the party awakens to find themselves trapped in the haunted basement of the Dinkins Building. To escape, they must face a series of challenges and find the sign-in sheet that proves they attended, lest they be cursed to repeat the training, forever.

As the summary suggests, it's a very funny adventure, although some of the jokes may be too obscure if you don't live in NYC, and many appeal primarily to city employees and other people very familiar with local government bureaucracy. (Fiona was forced to consult the Wikipedia pages for Fiorello La Guardia and Staten Island Chuck.)

There is a hilarious special mechanic, which I am going to discuss behind a cut. If you think you are likely to play Escape from the Dinkins Building as a player, don't read this; it's supposed to be secret from the PCs! Read more... )

The adventure is designed to take four hours, assuming the players and DM are experienced. As I recall, it took us less than that, and there are suggestions for what to cut if you don't have that much time. The module is clearly written, with a good amount of detail (and good maps!), such that I think it would be a good choice for an inexperienced or even first-time DM. It's ideal for players interested in roleplay and social encounters - this is definitely not a pure dungeon crawl - but the fights are solid as well. Overall, it's just a really fun oneshot and definitely worth playing!

I cannot say that I ever expected to use my dayjob tag on a post about a TTRPG, but I am so, so happy this exists.

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Aug. 16th, 2025 08:00 pm
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Just slept until 7 pm. Woke up feeling depressed. Hungry and there isn't much food in the house. For the first time, not having much motivation to draw pixels, which was what's been keeping me happy the past few days.

My family needs help. A housekeeper. But can we even afford one? My dad's in his 80s and he's gotten really tired lately--too tired for even getting groceries, and his memory is getting poorer. I know his time is running up and he's going to die someday. My brother is the only one with a job and is often busy. The sink is stacked with loads of disgusting dirty dishes, but the dishwasher doesn't work well. We have way too many fucking clothes, but our dryer isn't working either. I gave Lulubelle another flea bath and despite using the best preventive shampoo, the fleas just jump right back. Dad needs to vacuum his room which is likely where all the fleas still are, but again, he's exhausted. I feel like I'm the only one who's putting the most work taking care of all three dogs (who are supposed to be family pets, not just mine), but everything I do isn't enough to catch up with them. The house is a mess and we can't keep up.

The only person I know IRL is my bf Jax, and sometimes he helps by buying a few groceries himself, but I know he has his own family and work to take care of and I don't want to overburden him. I think Dad has one friend total who might direct us to help and resources? I just feel overburdened and helpless and scared and alone.

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