First world fuckery
Nov. 8th, 2025 09:53 pmSo far it won't even talk to my old dino-phone, or to my iPad which is barely more advanced, and it won't download everything from iCloud as my wifi is apparently using an old, insecure system, wpa2. So I have to upgrade that first and then will my iPad wifi and laptop wifi still work?? *grinds teeth*.
But in 20 minutes we go into a planned power cut so the local lines company can fix some urgent thingy, the second such in 3 days, which means I can postpone all this shit to another day.
Writing this to the sound of fireworks going off as Wednesday was Guy Fawkes night and with it now the weekend, lots of people saved their fireworks and we've had them exploding the last three days. You can set them off here anytime, but you can only buy them in the lead-up to Guy Fawkes once a year, in NZ law.
So I'm sitting here stumped by futuristic tech while being serenaded by a five centuries old celebration of averted English domestic terrorism.
Time for a nice cup of tea.
The Diplomat S3 and The Fantastic Four: First Steps
Nov. 8th, 2025 09:00 amThe Diplomat, Season 3: I was afraid the same would happen as with The West Wing - which series creator Deborah Cahn had also been involved in - , i.e. the reality I live in would make it impossible for me to watch a show in which the people working for the US administration might be fucked up in varying degrees, but all sincerely dedicated to the common good in terms of their motivation, and by implication the US public would not vote a creature like the Orange Menace into office (twice). (Hence my personal impossibility of a WW rewatch right now.) This turned out not to be the case. By and large, I enjoyed the season, though its global dangers not withstanding, I would still rather live in that reality (where the US President might ( do spoilery things ), but would not want to change the US into a mixture of ultimate corruption and theocratic autocracy, and the British PM is still a Boris Johnson expo with the thinnest of egos, but at least Nigel Farage doesn't exist. (BTW: it's not clear where The Diplomat's timeline departs from ours; resident Rayburn was clearly a Joe Biden avatar when the show started and there is some occasional talk about restoring the US image abroad, but they never say from what, and whether the Orange Menace's first assault on democracy happened or whether something else did.) Seaosn 3 deals with the fallout from season 2's cliffhanger ending, throws in some new twists (and characters), andwhile wrapping up its seasonal storyline again throws in a tag scene with a big new reveal/hook, while playing to its two strengths, i.e. bringing its central character into a series of convoluted political situations in which she has to extricate not just herself but others (including the US and GB), and her screwed up but intense relationship with her husband. ( More spoilery observations to follow. ) In conclusion, I continue to like this entertaining AU. I hope it gets another season, though if it doesn't, this finale despite its last moment reveal would also work as a finale.
The Fantastic Four: First Steps : Which I missed in the cinema but which is now on Disney +. Personal state of knowledge: I saw none of the earlier Fantastic Four movies, to which this one isn't connected anyway; the comicverse characters I encountered a) in an historical AU version via the comics 1602, and b) in the comicverse Civil War storylilne, which means I hardly saw them at their best. (Unforgotten: Reed Richards fanboying Joe McCarthy.) I'm happy to report these latest MCU versions are a delightful bunch, living in a canonical alternate universe (818) in the 1960s, and keeping in trend with both MCU Spiderman and the latest DCU Superman, we're not going through the origin story again but the movie introduces us to the character(s) when they're already superheroiing, albeit not that long. The cast includes Vanessa Kirby as Sue Storm, Pedro Pasqual as Reed Richards, and Joe Quinn, since Stranger Things a Geek celebrity, as Sue's brother Johnny, with the unknown-to-me Ebon Moss-Bachrach playing Ben Grimm. Something that struck me as very sympathetic is that the movie treats the four as a true ensemble, i.e. Johnny and Ben aren't the sidekicks, and that the central dilemna when it's revealed ( and which is spoilery )
Welcome to fire season
Nov. 8th, 2025 03:58 pmFour sodding big helicopters have just gone overhead. Checking the emergency website, Wireless Hill (the whole parkland) is on yellow alert.
This isn't that early for fire season -- reasonably sure that the fire bans start in October, but it sure feels early.
Photos from Cyprus
Nov. 8th, 2025 07:55 am
[Breakfast terrace view. Hire cars have red number plates.]
I didn't have much of an opportunity to research Cyprus before I arrived. Nicosia, the host city of the conference I just attended, is divided between Greek and Turkish Cyprus. The hotel I booked - and all I did was select the cheapest one on the conference accommodation list because it’s close to the venue - is only a couple of blocks from the Green Zone, the UN policed buffer that separates the two halves of the island. It is clear to see as soon as you go around the side of the hotel. Many shops are boarded up (though the flats above them are still occupied), their gates rusted and facades crumbling.

[Crumbling gracefully.]

[Crumbling less gracefully.]
A few stalwart businesses keep their doors open.

[Bold claim: “Cyprus: Irresistible for 9000 years”]
Just a couple of blocks away are shiny new high rise buildings and attractive public spaces. You could, as a tourist, choose never to stray from the wide boulevards and safe pavements.

[Eleftheria Square by day.]

[Walking below Eleftheria Square at night.]
Google maps certainly didn't believe I should do that, taking me on a different path to the conference venue every day, past an entirely new set of cats.

[Noble guardian.]
There are cats *everywhere*. Food and water are left out for them on the street corners and in vacant lots. They are even more prevalent at night.

[The Gang.]
I must have spoken to 15 different people after arriving before I encountered a Nicosian Cypriot. The first Cypriot I met was giving a talk in the firzt session I attended who of course lives in London, not Cyprus. He recommended the meze restaurant (see below). The food here is incredible. I've tried something new every day.
Georgian food.

[All of these bean paste / beetroot things are nice, but the ones in the middle are fried aubergine wrapped around walnut paste and I could have eaten about thirty of those alone and been very happy.]
Meze.

[This was about a quarter of the way through the meal, and they kept bringing dishes. Far too much food for two people, although PhD student and I made a heroic effort. Those little fried courgette strips on the far right were my undoing.]

[Dessert.]
“Healthy eating” restaurant.

[This may look heavy / oily but it was not. The pastry was delicate and crisp and the feta inside was like a little fluffy cloud. Amazing.]
Even the breakfast at my otherwise average hotel was delicious.

[The little roll covered in sesame seeds has a sort of olive pate in it which is *chef's kiss*. I had one every morning.]
In summary, 10/10, would come back to Cyprus to Eat All The Things.
Philosophical Questions: Community
Nov. 8th, 2025 12:13 amIs hierarchy necessary for all successful human communities?
No. It's just easier. Humans seem inclined to prefer having leadership. Egalitarian communities exist, but they tend to take more work to create and maintain.
Dept. of Memes
Nov. 7th, 2025 10:40 pmA song title that is all in lower case:
I was sure this one was going to be difficult, but it turned out to be easier than I thought. This is a song by RM, the leader of the juggernaut KPop group BTS. It was on his "Mono" album from about seven years ago. It's largely low-fi, and I love listening to it when I want to slow my mind down; when I just want to breathe. I had forgotten that the title of this song, "forever rain," was in lower case. I hope you like it - the music video art suits it. I notice that this is the second time I've picked a song from "Mono" for this list.
Here are my five previous answers.
Day 1
Day 2
Day 3
Day 4
Day 5
Today's Smoothie
Nov. 7th, 2025 10:51 pm1 cup strawberry apple cider
1 cup Brown Cow vanilla yogurt
1 banana
1/2 cup frozen strawberries
1/2 cup ice
The result is bright pink and on the thin side, with a nice fruity flavor. We used strawberry apple cider from Grissom Orchard -- they have a few different flavors, all good. It's at least the second time we've made this, but I forgot to write it down earlier.
speed round friday five ding ding
Nov. 7th, 2025 08:38 pm1. What’s harder to live without, chocolate or alcohol?
Chocolate but I do without it mostly. I don't drink so alcohol is an easy omission for me.
2. Does the colour yellow remind you of anything?
It was my favorite color as a child because it felt underappreciated and genderless.
3. Who most annoyed you last week?
Probably someone I work with? I don't recall.
4. Do you have a cutesy romantic nickname for your partner (or previous partners)?
I do. One that is specific to my current partner that we use in our home. In public, I'm big on "babe" or "darlin'" and that's about it.
5. What is your favourite Stephen King movie?
Shawhank Redemption. Can't beat it.
As I'm zig zagging between Ohio and West Virginia
Nov. 7th, 2025 11:15 pmSo I had to give two of the bone tests today and it left me leaving later than I wanted to get to Athens for the writers meet up (i.e. me and MKF) and from there on to Marietta so it's about 80 miles of highway from here to there. Ah well I'm here, alive and well and apparently only a handful of doors down from Eddie Munster and several wrestlers who are all guests at the Marietta Monster Mash. It should be fun (and it starts an hour later than I thought so I should find something to do in the morning. I wouldn't mind going to Jeremiah's but the onstreet parking for that coffee shop sucks it hard)
And the lady I talked to last night did me a favor. I have a mini suite with two couches AND at the con rate of 70$ and she introduced me to the con's showrunner (guess she liked me)
Let's do fannish friday
Starting with my review of Hazbin Hotel's 3rd and 4th episodes
( under here because 98% of you aren't into the fandom and it got long because I got excited )
And I wrote a story for
Title: No Matter How Strong, I'm Gonna Take You Down
Summary: Anthony knows it’s either him or his father and he will do what he has to. The aftermath isn’t all he expected
Notes: Major spoilers for S2 Episode 3 and Angel’s backstory. Definitely watch the episode first.
Written for spikesgirl58’s 6 word challenge. The words were Harmony, Abort, Drug, Muddled, Slippery, & Apathetic
Also written for the allbingo prompt of I didn't want power. All I wanted was control. over my life and the lyrical titles bingo challenge for the prompt an angry song. I chose Dinner at Eight by Rufus Wainright
( Story under here or at the above link )
And all the fandom recs will have to wait maybe til tomorrow. It's quite late.
Death or love tonight
Nov. 7th, 2025 11:05 pm
Time changes mean I can do some cemetery shooting with a sunset before the gates close the public out for the night. You can see six other sunset cemetery shots at my Flickr. +++
New York state's reaction to the SNAP crisis seems to be "We have no idea wtf is going on, any plans, or any suggestions for you, lol." Meanwhile, the HRA website for my benefits just pretends it paid me for food this month; you need to call the phone number to see the nothing that's actually on your card.
I hear Governor Hochul may do something, maybe around Sunday. After all the bs, I won't believe it until it is actually on my card.
The stress of the last month and week--and the possibility of more to come--has really destroyed my ability to write.
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"Woman excited to put up ‘cute wallpaper’—Then she looks closer." It wasn't until she put it up on her kitchen wall that she saw the design was AI slop.
catten yarn
Nov. 7th, 2025 09:50 pm
Not much yet as it's a slightly tricky spin, mostly in that one has to pay attention instead of watching anime while spinning on inattentive mode. :D It feels different of course (silkier/floofier), but the spinning technique, like huacaya alpaca, is surprisingly similar to cotton in some ways!
BTW,
Poem: "A Clear Path of Freedom"
Nov. 7th, 2025 09:17 pmWarning: This poem contains intense and controversial topics. Highlight to read the more detailed notes, some of which are spoilers. It includes a ritual for justice with violent ends, ominous mythical figures, a bad leader, reference to sexual assault, reference to abuse under color of authority, treachery, and other challenges. If these are touchy topics for you, please consider your tastes and headspace before reading onward.
( Read more... )
QOTD: Fishing with kites!
Nov. 7th, 2025 09:25 pm“In Polynesia, they used kites to fish, flying baited lines over the water to catch fish — a method that's also still around." (Lindsey Johnson, “A Brief History of Kites,” in Make:, #93, p. 53)
After reading this quote, I had to look into kite fishing more. Not only is it still around, I found someone in Dauphin Island, Alabama (near where I grew up) who's kite fishing in the Gulf of Mexico. It's possible (though I make no guarantees) that if I had been introduced to kite fishing, I would have found fishing more interesting than I did and wouldn't have given up on it.
#41 Over Dessert (part 1 of 1, complete)
Nov. 7th, 2025 10:17 pmBy Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 1, complete
Word count (story only): 1265
[Sunday, May 10, 2020, early evening]]
:: Liana and Beverly are offered dessert, and the conversation eases the tension a bit more, fortunately. Part of the Edison’s Mirror universe. ::
Back to Another Idea
To the Edison's Mirror Index
On to
Aidan lifted Beverly’s empty glass. “Would you like some more? Or perhaps a serving of the berry crumble that Vic made for dessert? I adore reheating things in the microwave, it’s almost less work for me than walking to the kitchen.”
Liana brightened. “That sounds good!” She turned a guilty glance to Beverly. “Is it okay?”
“Of course it is,” the older woman assured. “I’d like some as well. Could… Could you explain a bit more about how you would annoy Declan, basically by existing?”
Vic snickered. Loudly. “He’s trying to stake a claim on Liana, and following her around like a stalker. The fact that I’ve been seen with her--male, about her age-- Well, that makes me a massive threat to his ‘approach’. Ed’s too young, and Aidan’s too old, but hanging out with them is a legitimate reason for me to be around her, which will drive Declan up a wall if he’s a classic talker.”
“Yeah,” Ed agreed. “It’s pretty clear that he’s a stalker.” The preteen held up his fingers one by one, tapping them against the thumb as he counted. “One. Unwanted. If Liana thought that he was the best potential boyfriend, she’d be eager to see him. The problem is, a stalker can’t imagine why she isn’t absolutely delighted to see him.
“Two. Fixated. He’s not going after any other werewolf, is he?”
Beverly shook her head. “No, obviously not. But he’s also not easy to catch.”
“That’s only going to make him feel like he’s doing the right thing. Three. Obsessed. That means that if he started by following her home from the grocery store, that won’t be enough for long. He’ll try to follow her home from any errand that she runs.” The boy accepted a steaming mug of cocoa. “Thanks. But that means that he has to spend more time following her, and that will give us a chance to trap him, or call the cops on him.”
Aidan slipped into the kitchen. Vic took a seat at the end of the chaise, next to Ed’s feet. “There’s more than one kind of stalker, isn’t there?”
“I’m getting to that. Some types are more dangerous to the victim, but some are very, very dangerous to the people around them.” Ed’s stormy hazel eyes met Beverly’s. “That includes you, not just males.” Ed sighed. “Four. Repeated. That means that each successful event -to him- will make him try it again. That’s the most frightening part about all of this.”
Beverly shivered. “You seem to know a lot about stalkers. Is that why--?” She trailed off gently.
Ed shook his head. “No. That’s all I’ll say about it.” He took a deeper breath, inhaling the scent of cocoa, and took a tiny sip.
“Types. Have you been on a date with Declan, Liana?” The boy’s tone softened when he addressed her.
She shook her head. “It’s not like that. It’s about…” She gulped, then whispered, “It’s about being a born werewolf, instead of a Gifted one. He thinks… that he’s the best teacher for me.”
Ed shook his head. “It doesn’t diminish the stalking, but it does change the type and the risks. He’s not a rejected suitor. If he’s trying to be a mentor, it might exclude the incompetent suitor type, but it might not.” The boy shivered. “The psychology of those stalkers is scary.”
“How do you know so much about it?” Beverly asked. She cleared her throat. “I mean, this isn’t the usual kind of hobby interest.”
“Mum and Da put books on the shelves sorted by category, but also by capability. The bottom shelves were picture books, wordless books, and so on, with more challenging books or more difficult emotional topics on the higher shelves, with the top shelves always ‘ask first’ books for reference, like Da’s diagnostic manual or Mum’s thesis.” Ed giggled. “Da’s thesis was on the shelf for about middle school age, because it was meant for that age of clients. He wrote the whole thing not for his professors but for his future clients.”
He giggled again. “His advisor warned him that the committee could have rejected the whole project, even with the advisor’s approval. But Da did it anyway.”
“So, you’re from a family of geeks?” Liana asked, smiling. “It sounds like a lot of fun.”
“I miss them,” Ed whispered. He straightened. “Liana, has anybody told you that they believe you about Declan? I believe that you had one set of expectations and Declan had, has, and is acting on a different set of them.”
Aidan set a small bowl of dark berry cobbler on the end table next to Liana. “Here you go.” He handed her a cloth napkin and a dessert spoon. “As for Declan, it is not your responsibility to fix him, nor to clean up after his mistakes.”
Liana nodded. “Beverly says that a lot.”
“Good.” He turned an approving smile to include both women, and set the second bowl of crumble next to Beverly. “I’d like to ask some questions later. Not a few minutes, but a few weeks later, at a minimum. Decide what you’re comfortable with, and I’ll accept those limitations, but the questions are important enough to me that I will share personal information in return.”
“That’s not an easy thing to ask,” Beverly admitted. “It’s part of why I’m having so much trouble in this conversation.”
Ed accepted a bowl of crumble barely large enough to hold a cup of food. A dot of butter melted on the toasted oat topping. He draped the napkin on his lap and reached for the spoon, while Vic waited patiently. “Thanks. Can I ask a question, Beverly?” Ed asked. His spoon hovered over the dish.
“You could ask, but I might hesitate while trying to find an answer.” She frowned. “I worry that I’ll say something to upset you, which is not what I want at all.”
The preteen nodded. “Okay. Uhm… why haven’t you mentioned a title for the leader? I can understand not mentioning age or gender, but… Do you just call them “Leader,” or “Boss,” or “Pointer”?” Ed’s lips quirked almost imperceptibly upward.
Beverly chuffed. Then snickered. Then she began to laugh, deeply, fully, while her shoulders heaved. Finally, the quake of humor passed. “No. We don’t say it because different groups have different names. There are lots of slang terms for redheads, and because of it, if I called you Blue, you would have a very good idea where I grew up.”
“I like the name Pointer,” Liana teased, shaking her head. “I mean, we make plenty of dog jokes between ourselves, so it’s… on point.”
Vic chuckled, then offered her a high five. “Good one!”
He accepted a bowl of crumble from Aidan. “Where’s yours?” he murmured.
Aidan shook his head. “Eating more right now would become nothing but fat. If I’d done more gardening today, it wouldn’t be an issue.”
Liana hummed in pleasure. “That’s really good. What’s in it?”
“Ed’s is the only one with butter in it. There’s a tiny bit of sugar, some cinnamon, an underripe apple for pectin, and a mix of blackberries and raspberries. The crumble is mostly oats and spices. I’m not fond of extremely sweet foods of any kind.”
She smiled. “Make a grocery list, and I’ll bring the ingredients. Then we can make a really, really big batch.”
Aidan nodded, grinning back at her. “That is a very good plan.”
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AO3 Meme
Nov. 7th, 2025 09:44 pmAs of today, with 1325 works:
1. What rating do you write most fics under?
General Audiences - 623; Teen and Up - 274 is the second, which is not even close.
2. What are your top 3 fandoms?
DCU (292)
Star Wars (187)
Cabin Pressure (64) (almost all limericks from Sept 2025)
Honorable Mention: Slings & Arrows (63), which is at least not all five-line poetry
3. What is your top character you write about?
Obi-Wan Kenobi (137)
Bruce Wayne comes in second at 131 but I never did a Kinktober in DCU fandom, and I've done two in Star Wars mostly-Prequels fandom.
4. What are the 3 top pairings?
Obi-Wan Kenobi/Anakin Skywalker (85)
Dick Grayson/Bruce Wayne (43)
Padmé Amidala/Anakin Skywalker (22)
Padmé Amidala/Obi-Wan Kenobi/Anakin Skywalker (21)
Gene Hunt/Sam Tyler (20) (included for variety)
5. What are the top 3 additional tags?
Drabble (474)
Limericks (202)
Poetry (85)
You don't get a non-format one till Identity Porn (22), Psychic Wolves (19), and Oral Sex (18).
The No Longer Littlest Black Belt Takes the Next Step
Nov. 8th, 2025 02:43 amToday, I became a second degree black belt.
It was supposed to happen sooner. But right when the head of my dojo began saying that maybe it was time for me to prep for testing, a pandemic started. Which put a dent in my training. And even once classes began again, various factors meant I wasn't able to go regularly. And then 2024 was, in hindsight, a rather abysmal year for my health. And and and, spring of this year rolled around, and I realized I was in danger of it being ten years since my previous test, and dammit, I did not intend to let that milestone pass without me at least trying to take the next step.
There were more than a few hurdles along the way. I've had wrist problems for years that meant I hadn't been doing kobudo (weapons training), but you're expected to do that as part of your test. So starting in August I began a crash course, scraping the rust off the sai kata I was expected to perform -- not too bad; it was one I used to know well -- and, uh, learning from scratch a long and difficult bo kata that I did not know in the slightest. I went so gung-ho on that, in fact, that I managed to give myself a repetitive stress sprain in my right ankle five weeks before the test (bear in mind that sprains take about six weeks to heal . . .). And then, to put the cherry on top of that sundae, I caught my big toe against the mat nine days ago and basically re-activated the hellacious sprain I had in that joint some years previously.
As I put it to several people, by the time I got to the test, I felt like I was being held together by chewing gum. Not even duct tape: that would have been an upgrade.
But these higher-level tests can only be done when our dojo's founder is in town (he moved back to Okinawa a few years ago), and his next visit will likely be for the seminar in April of next year. That would be past the decade mark I was determined to beat. So, come hell or high water, I was going to drag my sorry carcass through the test -- and I did! And, barring a couple of utterly bone-headed errors brought on by nerves (which got knowing nods of "yep, that happens" from other black belts later), I did acceptably well. I faced down literally an international panel of seven sensei -- Shihan being in from Okinawa, and also we have a contingent of Germans from one of our sister dojo here for the fall seminar -- whose collective belt rank totaled well over forty degrees, and I achieved ni-dan status.
You don't get a new belt, of course. It's still the same black belt as before. But there's kind of a joke that a truly experienced black belt becomes a white belt again, because over time the black threads fray and break, revealing the white canvas core underneath, so that a truly high-level sensei's belt can be tattered indeed.
And this afternoon, after I passed my test . . .
. . . I glanced down at my belt . . .
. . . and I found a tiny frayed spot on the corner of one end where the white canvas is peeking through.
I consider it my ni-dan badge. ^_^
(originally posted at Swan Tower: https://is.gd/u7LBNv)
Free for All Saturday, Week 45 [DW Edition]
Nov. 8th, 2025 08:34 am↑↑↑ Available dates:
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Warm greetings to you, whatever the temperature may be! (It's definitely a good hot chocolate day here. :3) It's time for this week's Free for All. There are no themes to follow for prompts or fills. If, perhaps, you missed a prompt theme that you liked, or you've had any ideas that didn't really work with Tuesday's or Thursday's posts, then today's your chance to prompt 'em. Be free, and have fun! ✎
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