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蝶になって ([personal profile] bluapapilio) wrote2025-11-21 02:11 pm
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November Manga Wrap-Up

 

Read Can Angels Do This?, 4/10 stars.

Read 999 Hitome no Otoko, it didn't end conclusively which is a shame, it seems like maybe they planned on writing more but didn't. It had kind of a unique take on lust demons. 3/5 stars

Reread volume 1 of Junjou Romantica, 7/10. Egoist is my current fav. :)

Read the BL Dash!, rated it 8/10!

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oursin ([personal profile] oursin) wrote2025-11-21 07:54 pm

That was very pleasant

Meet-up with visiting person from US institution of renown which I have visited in the past, and BBL (who I realise I have known for getting on for 40 years as we first met when I gave the first paper on my PhD research), whom I have not seen in person for yonks though we have talked on the phone.

While the reason for this was rather sad as it involves scholar we both knew and liked a lot who died unexpectedly last year, and left various projects unfinished but in a fairly advanced state, it was also a very lively and stimulating and enjoyable meeting with lots of mutual appreciation.

Also it looks like there may be a very interesting project coming out of this to finish off one of the projects which is bang in my wheelhouse/ballpark/whatever.

However, though not surprised or shocked, saddened to hear that things are, indeed, and fairly predictably, not well with the institution in question.

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Nic ([personal profile] picnicnic) wrote in [community profile] iconcolors2025-11-21 04:12 pm

round 180: amnesty round (round 042: Snow Queen)

Last set I'm doing for this round!

I Can Has Cheezburger? ([syndicated profile] icanhascheezburger_feed) wrote2025-11-21 10:00 am

24 Fluffy Feline Funnies Featuring the Soft Sweetness Known as Cats

Posted by Ayala Sorotsky

Some days are just cold. Not just outside, but inside your soul a little bit too. The kind of days where you need something soft, something gentle, something warm enough to thaw you from the inside out. And if there's one thing on this planet we know is able to melt the frost off your mood, it's cats - the soft, sweet, fluffy feline heart-heaters they are.

Cats don't even have to try to be comforting. One tiny paw draped over your arm? Instant warmth. A slow blink from across the room? Emotional hot chocolate. A purr that rumbles like a teeny tiny tractor engine? That's basically therapy. Even their drama is adorable - like when they flop dramatically on the floor because they simply must be petted this very moment or they will perish.

And on days when the world feels chilly or heavy or just… meh, cat memes come in like little pockets of sunshine. A soft boopable nose here, a fluffy loaf there, a cat making questionable life choices in a cardboard box - all of it working together to warm your heart like a cozy blanket straight from the dryer. So grab that morning warm drink and let this batch of fluffy feline funnies snuggle right into your day. Because the weather might be cold, but cats (and cat memes) are pure, sweet warmth.

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full_metal_ox ([personal profile] full_metal_ox) wrote in [community profile] metaquotes2025-11-21 02:07 pm

New from Torment Nexus Industries: THE BAD IDEA BEAR!

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ororo ([personal profile] ororo) wrote in [community profile] holiday_wishes2025-11-21 12:14 pm

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Hi everyone!

Whatever you might be celebrating, may it be joyful. For me, that’s the days getting longer at the Winter Solstice.


I’ve been participating for a few years and happy I’m able to do so again this year. I'm a woman of a certain age, closing in on Old Bathood, and live in NYC

  • Donations to your public library
  • Donations to your state or local Civil Liberties Union
  • If you’re a reader, please rate and review the last book you read or the book you’re currently reading. These ratings and reviews are what allows algorithms to recommend the books to others
  • My Amazon wishlist is here. These are all fun things, nothing over $15.
  • Donations to your local rabbit rescue
  • Recommendations for a good spica splint that immobilizes the wrist as well as the thumb.I have DeQuervain's, which means the tendors around my thumb are a bit borked. I don't need anyone to purchase the splints, I have funds set aside for medical things to do that, but the splints I have only immobilize my thumb.
  • Your favorite air fryer recipes—please note my air fryer is a small one, so I can’t do recipes that need things on multiple levels/racks
  • Tea! Loose or bagged. I like white, green, oolong, and blacks, though not pu-ehr.
  • Anime recommendations. I am a huge fan of Full Metal Alchemist, I recently enjoyed the first season of the Apothecary Diaries. Girls/Women as weapons are cool, so are mecha. I prefer the romance understated and most of the sex offscreen
  • DoorDash gift cards for those nights when work or the news takes too much out of me to cook


Thank you!

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purplecat ([personal profile] purplecat) wrote2025-11-21 06:57 pm

Random Roman Remains


The remains of Hadrian's Wall on the right snake over a rise down and then up over the next rise.  The remains of a square building abut the wall close to.
A milecastle on Hadian's Wall
I Can Has Cheezburger? ([syndicated profile] icanhascheezburger_feed) wrote2025-11-21 09:00 am

Owner abandons fluffy black cat like a used Kleenex, so her ex-roommate stepped up to adopt her and

Posted by Blake Seidel

Never have we seen a story that's so many things wrong and so many things right all in one place. The premise is simple - an owner abandons her fluffy black cat in the process of moving out because she didn't want to take her with her. So the now ex-roommate stepped up and adopted her, which is a purrfeclty heroic thing to do. Now they're best buds, and her new hooman is becoming a pawrent that will know feline love for a long, long time.

We can't skip over the fact that an owner left her cat, though. Cats are not toys to be discarded - they are living, breathing creatures that depend on you to survive. They need love and stability, and this ex-owner is lucky that her roommate was woman enough to step up and take care of her as her own. We don't want to think about what would have happened to her if she hadn't.

Along a similar train of thought, many cats are given as gifts during the holiday season, and as a result, many are returned because cats are not gifts, they are animals that need all parties' consent in order to bring into the family. Cats may be relatively low-maintenance, but they will still change your life once you bring them into your house. Don't be that purrson who returns a cat to a shelter because you decided it wasn't for you. It's not nice for you, and especially for the cat.

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swan_tower ([personal profile] swan_tower) wrote2025-11-21 06:04 pm
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New Worlds: Sex Segregation

Segueing on from eunuchs and the notion of them guarding harems, let's talk about contexts in which people tend to get separated on the basis of sex. Or gender -- but in the types of contexts were this segregation happens, the concern is often very specifically about bodies, and what they're carrying downstairs. When biological sex and social gender do not align, the dynamics get more complicated, as we're seeing in the present day.

Some kinds of sex segregation are situational, being focused on a specific event. Rites of passage in certain types of society are often focused on initiating boys into the company of men and girls into the company of women; it therefore makes sense that the other group shouldn't be present. Childbirth is another event that may be restricted only to women, with men having their own traditions to perform elsewhere. Even a girls' slumber party may be off-limits to boys, any such intruders being driven away with shrieks of outrage and maybe some thrown pillows. But once that event is over, the space opens up again; the living room where the slumber party was held is not forbidden to men forevermore.

Where the separation is more about the space than a specific event, it's most likely to happen in contexts that are both bodily and communal. Locker rooms and bathing facilities, for example, involve individuals stripping down in the company of other people, so we tend to have separate ones for men and women. The communal part is particularly important here: nobody thinks twice about the fact that toilets at home or on airplanes are all-gender by default, because they're also single-occupancy. It's only when the space is shared that hackles rise over a lack of segregation -- though proponents point out that all-gender communal restrooms tend to be built in a way that offers more privacy to everybody, and that's a good thing.

For many of us, it probably makes sense that anything which involves baring intimate parts of the body should be veiled from the opposite sex, outside special circumstances. But the "bodily" part of the above equation also extends in directions that may be less obvious to my average reader . . . like eating. We think nothing of men and women eating together, even in public! But in other places and times, women have taken their meals separately from men, even within the walls of their own homes -- and a restaurant is right out. Regency England considered it barely acceptable for a woman of quality to dine in a private room at a commercial establishment, especially if she was traveling, but out in public? That was scandalous. (The French, ever risqué, thought it was just fine.)

The other broad category in which segregation may rear its head is religious contexts. Mosques very commonly have separate sections for men and women, for the very practical reason than Muslim prayer involves kneeling and bowing one's head to the ground, which leads to a lot of time with the rear end of the person ahead of you being right in front of your face. In mixed contexts, it's easy to see how this can get socially awkward and may distract people from the religious matters that should be their focus. Orthodox and some Conservative Jewish synagogues likewise maintain separate sections for men and women, again for reasons of modesty and improved attention to God.

Depending on the place in question, this division can be accomplished in a number of ways. The different sections can be marked by anything from segregated doors to a rope to a low wall to a curtain, depending on the degree of privacy required. This may run laterally through the space, so that the women are (usually) behind the men, or it may run axially, placing them side-by-side -- the latter carrying a great symbolic connotation of equality, as it allows both sexes to be equally close to the front. Or the separation may be greater, with women in a balcony (echoed by the Women's Gallery that used to allow English ladies to observe the doings of a wholly masculine Parliament), in a different room, or even in another building entirely, one constructed for their sole use.

Of course, when we think of sex segregation, we think above all of purdah -- using that as a generalized term for the seclusion of women from public view, via clothing, architecture, and behavior, in all contexts rather than only specific ones. On the sartorial end, veils can hide a woman's hair, face, or even eyes from view, while long skirts, long sleeves, and perhaps gloves conceal everything else, depending on the degree of concealment required. On the architectural end, pierced wooden screens serve a dual purpose: environmentally, they permit some air circulation while blocking most light, and socially, they prevent outsiders from easily seeing into the house, where the women are.

In English we tend to equate the word "harem" with a man's collection of wives and concubines, but properly speaking, it's the private part of the house, which by the principle of metonymy came to also indicate the women there. Male outsiders and servants may not enter; even male relatives may be restricted, with only the closest or those under the age of puberty allowed across the threshold. Meanwhile, the women themselves often face restrictions on their ability to leave -- which, in extreme cases (like the wives and concubines of a ruler), might extend as far as prohibiting that entirely.

To be clear, although we associate this with the Muslim world, and perhaps with India, that's not its only context. Noble and royal women in East Asian countries, for example, might only converse with men from behind a screen, because it was improper for them to be viewed directly. Early modern Spanish writings are full of the idea that women should stay within their houses and not go out, only grudgingly allowing for things like church attendance -- indeed, Europe more broadly agreed that women should not be out in public any more than strictly necessary. Where there is patriarchy, there will be a desire to control the visibility, movements, and activities of women.

At least for elite women. Because let's be clear: this kind of segregation is ultimately a luxury, and therefore not equally affordable by all classes. Somebody has to go out for food, water, and other necessities, and that work can't all be done by men, because they're busy with their own jobs. The private seclusion of upper-class women relies on the public activities of slaves or paid servants, many of whom will be female. Meanwhile, households living closer to the poverty line can't afford that kind of help; their women might have to work at agricultural or commercial tasks just to make ends meet. They may still be barred from certain contexts, forbidden to attend the theatre or take a meal in a tavern, and they may be required to observe strict forms of modesty while they're out and about, but they can't be hidden away entirely.

Ultimately, then, while limited and context-dependent forms of sex segregation can be very commonplace, the blanket sort indicated by the term purdah is an expression not only of gender ideology but of economics. It can only occur where there is the wealth to support it, along with the will to enforce it.

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eatdrinkmerrymod ([personal profile] eatdrinkmerrymod) wrote in [community profile] eatdrinkmakemerry2025-11-21 09:27 am
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Reveals Delay; Pinch Hits (4 existing, 3 new)

We still have several pinch hits in need of fills, so reveals will be delayed by one week, to November 30.

This post is out of date; please see the most recent post in the "pinch hits" tag.
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beccaelizabeth ([personal profile] beccaelizabeth) wrote2025-11-21 05:12 pm
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Today I listened to the Big Finish Doctor Who from the Monthly Range:
Harry Houdini's War.

It wasn't very good.

I have no objections to the Houdini bits, or the plot, I guess, but it did a cheat that breaks the story logic in half. Like it would work fine if Read more... ) So why were they acting that way? Mostly it doesn't make sense.

Either that or I needed to listen to it paying more attention and with less of a break between episodes and then it would come into focus.

I am grump now though, because the audio gives us even less than usual to work with to figure out what is going on, and then it tells a lie and you can't know that, and then I feel like my time was wasted.

Didn't like it.
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regshoe ([personal profile] regshoe) wrote2025-11-21 04:35 pm

DVD commentary: 'Fragments of Her Mind'

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For [personal profile] edwardianspinsteraunt, a DVD commentary of my Howards End fic 'Fragments of Her Mind'.


DVD commentary... )

So there you go! I do really like this story; I've enjoyed revisiting it, and I was reading through it thinking, perhaps I should do more Howards End stuff... and now the schedule for [community profile] rarefemslashexchange has just gone up. How convenient.
I Can Has Cheezburger? ([syndicated profile] icanhascheezburger_feed) wrote2025-11-21 08:00 am

'Tis the Season to Laugh Like a Lolcat: 20 Original Feline Funnies to End the Week With Joy and Jing

Posted by Blake Seidel

We always feel pawsitively generous during the holiday season. Maybe it's that Christmas and Thanksgiving are just around the corner, purrhaps it's the fuzzy sweaters and getting all bundled up just to go outside, but we love to see others be happy these days. To offer a sweet smile, a hot beverage, or the best thing of all, a chance to meet a new cat friend. Since we're in the giving mewd, we're blessing the end of your week with some original feline funnies, straight from the I Can Has Cheezburger meme factory in our Lolcats division.

Cats bring us nearly unlimited joy, and thus, cat memes do the same. Since we firmly believe that it's irresponsible to give a cat as a gift, we're giving you some of our freshly-baked funnies instead. That way, you can waltz into the weekend with joy and jingles! They're purrfectly appropriate for these wintery months. Print them out and hang them on your Christmas tree, send them to your friends, or simply show them to your cats and say, "That's so you!". They won't get it, unfortunately, and even if they do, they'll never admit to it. 

Don't let these original feline funnies go to waste - pass them on to someone who needs a smile or a funny feline face to make their day pawsitively better. You can make someone's day better, just like that.

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themis1 ([personal profile] themis1) wrote in [community profile] girlmeetstrouble2025-11-21 04:25 pm

The Spy Who Loved Me

Hi all!

I'll be starting the next book, Ian Fleming's 'The Spy Who Loved Me' on Tuesday 2nd December. I'll just post chapter one on that day, and two chapters every subsequent Tuesday. It's not a long book and there are 15 chapters so I think that makes sense.

See everybody then!
I Can Has Cheezburger? ([syndicated profile] icanhascheezburger_feed) wrote2025-11-21 07:00 am

'We thought he was older': Couple adopts a seemingly normal kitten, but the cute cat keeps on growin

Posted by Mariel Ruvinsky

Adopting a kitten always means taking a certain risk. When you adopt an adult cat, you know what you're getting. You know their purrsonality, their likes and dislikes. They are fully grown and ready. But kittens… kittens will grow up to be all kinds of things. Some kittens will grow up to be soft and fluffy velcro cats who don't leave you for a moment, and some will grow up to be little hooligans who run around your house and destroy all of your favorite items. 

What kittens are not supposed to do, generally speaking, is keep growing. There is supposed to be a limit somewhere. A reasonable limit. They are supposed to turn into a cat, not into… something unexpected. So, when this couple adopted a completely normal kitten, but the kitten simply kept on growing, we think it's fair to say that they were surprised. And now, they have a not-so-little tyrant living in their home, ordering them around